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Levels of Pettiness and Preference

Speaker 1 0:00

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Speaker 2 1:10

Back to the lecture or the legend at hand how y'all doing , man ? Y'all having a good day ? I hope so . So y'all ?

Speaker 2 1:22

There was a time in my life where I said no to everything just because I wanted to say no . Say , for instance , somebody would ask to use my car when they didn't have a car and I'd be like , no , I'm going to use my car today . And then , as me and this person are chilling in the house all day , she would see me not use my car . Now I should have realized that karma is a mug , because , unconsciously , this person had harbored and she was waiting for the time and the moment in life where she could pay it back or pay it forward . However , you want to think about that , which has been the last two to three years of my life , where I'll be like , hey , I'll give you a little , just play-by-play . Oh , hey , yemi , do me a favor , yemi , do me a favor . Yemi , yemi , yemi , do me a favor . Yeah me , yeah me , yeah me , do me a favor .

Speaker 2 2:57

The silence is deafening . Huh , that's how I feel , and now that I've gotten to the point of ultimate frustration with the lack of response , I have coined a phrase that I feel like it's starting to grow and I feel like it's starting to get to the point of annoyance , where I want it to be , which is it don't pay you to be difficult . Oh boy , snap , snap , snap , snap , snap . Hey , I know the yummy face has been very straight , but she was like , yeah , deji did that . Deji did that , I know , I did , I know . Hey , I know I did , I know I did , I know I did . And what are we talking about today ?

Speaker 1 3:46

Today , I know I did .

Speaker 2 3:47

And what are we talking about today ? Today , we're talking about cattiness , catty , petty , whatever you want to call it .

Speaker 3 3:51

Ask yourself who is the pettiest person that you know . It's a nigga , right , it's usually a nigga . That's a lie , because the pettiest person I know is you . It's not how I'm not petty . You're like , intentionally petty and I'm just not an intentional petty person . I just happen to like , in certain situations , think of myself first , but you're intentionally petty , like you will know that the situation is the way that you would respond would be petty and you fully lean into it . Me , it's unintentional .

Speaker 2 4:36

How can you unintentionally be petty ? How the hell did that sound ?

Speaker 3 4:40

Sometimes it just happens like if , like I said , if you have the tendency to think of yourself first which you know uncandidly , I do and an outcome of a situation turns out to be petty , or I have a . I have this thing where , like you know , some of the things that I say come off as petty , but it's literally just meant to be like a statement as it is . It's never meant to be petty . Like you know where you have to preface stuff and say no shade . That's literally where I be coming from . But I don't think I mean I , like I said , I think that you know that it is uncharacteristic of you to be petty and you have fully leaned into it recently , as of late , being petty because you're trying to I don't know maybe match energy , or you just don't have the patience that you're used to having , or maybe for a bigger reason . But yeah , I think that you have the tendency to be petty for no reason .

Speaker 2 5:38

So what was the ?

Speaker 3 5:39

question . Oh , oh , no question , but we're today . We're talking about pettiness or levels two levels to pettiness I .

Speaker 2 5:49

I like to think , because I was in a . I was in a . I heard something the other day that if you don't monitor your emotions , they tend to control you . And the example they use is anger , like when it's a level one anger , but because you don't know how to react , you always act at a level three and I feel like pettiness is like that a lot of the times , right , like if you feel like you've been , you do this a lot . That's why I said you talk about me being petty . You literally will not actively do things because you feel like you've been slighted before . You know the situation .

Speaker 3 6:28

I'm not gonna speak no , give me like something that teases it so I can think about it , because I don't know everyday people who , who was I being petty towards ?

Speaker 3 6:42

I wasn't being petty towards that person . I didn't think I don't . I don't know why people be thinking like okay , so if I have an opinion about something , it can literally just be an opinion , but like I don't be caring about stuff , like I don't care about anything for real to where I would let it affect me in a way . But I feel like it's okay to have an opinion about something , state your opinion and just let it be that . Like I feel like it's yeah , but I didn't . I haven't acted in a petty way towards that person or in a situation like I don't but you'll actively avoid functions , because that's not petty , though , like that's literally preference , is that preference ?

Speaker 2 7:23

so if everybody's going versus petty , thatference versus petty .

Speaker 3 7:25

That's a conversation . Is it preference though it is ? It is . I mean , I feel like for me personally , like because I'm like some way in the industry that I work in but also still have to be social in it , I feel like it's preference . You can't go to everything , so I'm gonna make it a priority of mine to only go to the things that one I feel like would be good for me to go to , but also things that I care to be at , because I did go to an event that that person was at and just because , like socially , my friends were there , um , but that didn't have any bearing on me . Not going is what I'm saying . Like I'm sorry to speak in in circles , but you know , we we're trying to keep um , trying to keep good , good relationships with people trying to keep hope alive , trying to keep good relationships with people .

Speaker 2 8:15

So hope alive or a steady copacetic .

Speaker 3 8:19

But yeah , like I don't think it's petty for me not to want to go somewhere , because I have a preference on the type of things that I want when I go out socially okay but like I think it would be petty if I was intentionally stopping that person's bag or like throwing dirt on the person's name that is associated with .

Speaker 3 8:41

You know certain things , but I mean the , the people I have to sneeze , the people that I fuck with the promoters , that I fuck with the people that I actually want to do things with have sense . Not as I won't , because I won't say that the people that do not align with the way I think don't have sense . I just feel like it's business . Some things are business and some things are personal . And , um , the stuff that's business , I keep business , and the stuff that's personal , I keep personal . I hear all that . It's like a roundabout way to talk about what we're talking about .

Speaker 2 9:15

But but I feel like at the same token it's it's still categorized as petty yeah , it could be .

Speaker 3 9:20

I feel like there's a . If there was another word that is synonymous with petty , that's like unintentional , I could understand it being like that , but for me really , it's just like I think it's okay to know what a situation is for you and to move different based off of that . But I agree , like for some people , yeah , if I explain that to them fully , that could be petty , but I don't know . I feel like we can move on because we can talk .

Speaker 3 9:45

I know , but it was just an example , like I said like that's not me being um intentionally petty , but I do think , like if I think about myself , but it is intention , though , right no , I mean , I just feel like for me , at the end of the day , like me , not going to somebody's event is not going to have a bearing on whether it's a good event or not so we can move on .

Speaker 2 10:03

But you can't say you intentionally do something but it's unintentional right . That doesn't make any sense , because in order for you to do something you have to have intention right right , especially you can do things without .

Speaker 3 10:14

I don't think you can .

Speaker 2 10:15

That's why I said , like when you say you can be unintentionally petty , petty that's like very hard to do , like that's .

Speaker 3 10:23

That's basically saying you believe that you're better than everybody no , what I'm saying is that some things come across that way even though that was not what would come off as petty some , some of the things that I say , like I can be very um direct .

Speaker 2 10:36

That's your own affect and that's and i'm- not talking about anybody else .

Speaker 3 10:39

I'm talking about myself . I can be very direct and some of the things that I say come across as petty , but it's just a matter of fact but .

Speaker 2 10:49

But I also am . Very .

Speaker 3 10:50

Direct yeah , but I don't think that it depends on the situation . If it's a particular situation and I say something and it comes across as petty , then then then that's what it is , but that that was not my intention . My intention was just to probably state my opinion , to give an asked and answered . It could be a myriad of things , but I just think that for me personally , I'm not one of those people that leads with bad intention in anything that I do . It may just come across that way , but in my head I never do anything with ill intention and I put that on everything that I love .

Speaker 2 11:26

Do you think that pettiness is even a useful form of emotion ?

Speaker 3 11:30

no , I do think it just comes from the fact that I am a very passive aggressive , but I feel like , no , yeah , I think that you know , it would fare better in the world if people were just direct with their approach to everything and everybody . But I also think of conflict and confrontation , and those are two things that I don't like . So I would just prefer to be passive , aggressive , say things in a gentle , playful manner , or to just do it in my own Suki style , which is kind of like Just like keeping it funny but also being dead ass , serious , sure .

Speaker 2 12:14

Yeah , sure , okay , and that's just tact too .

Speaker 3 12:18

I think my tact in the way that I say things because I be serious but like you never really know if I'm like joking or serious but you really think that men are the most petty yeah y'all are petty as hell , like you be gossiping I don't gossip .

Speaker 2 12:31

Actually , when's the last time I gossip ?

Speaker 3 12:32

not with me , but I'm sure when you get with your people you be gossiping like men be gossiping . You gossip , everybody gossips , but men be gossiping like y'all be in the business , y'all be in . You know the phrase men's business and women's business came because somebody along the lines got things crossed and I feel like nine times out of ten is probably a nigga . Most of the conflict that happens on social media or most of the discourse comes from a nigga being in women's business .

Speaker 2 13:02

Well , I don't do that at all .

Speaker 3 13:03

No , but we're not talking about you specifically . We're talking about the world . That's true , that's what we do on the podcast . We talk about y'all .

Speaker 2 13:10

Okay

Complexities of Dating With Children

Speaker 2 13:11

. So then what's the most recent petty situation you've seen ? Oh , the Russell Wilson versus Future .

Speaker 3 13:17

That shit is petty , but I mean , I feel like that shit is hella petty . It's petty on Future .

Speaker 2 13:23

No , it's petty on Russell's part .

Speaker 3 13:25

What is he doing Besides raising another nigga's kids ?

Speaker 2 13:28

See , that's what y'all , that's what women do oh see there you go , got you . I said women .

Speaker 3 13:34

Bring out that misogyny , because I knew it was in you . It was not . I knew that misogyny was in you . Sure , bring that up about you .

Speaker 2 13:40

Sure , let's say it as a man we all understand that when a single baby mom is single , she has every right to date whoever she wants to date .

Speaker 3 13:49

Okay .

Speaker 2 13:49

Right , but there is no . We understand the good graces , we understand the play date . Hey , I want to be with this woman so bad that I will make sure that I win her child over . But , shumbo , there's a line when you start raising this kid like he's your own and I have . No , this is not me trying to justify anything of anything of what future has done . I'm gonna just say it like this you have no right to dictate what that person like you a stepdad , you are a stepdad . Your role is that . So when decisions are made in the house for that child , if the mom is not making it she needed to call the pops . I don't care if the pops is future . It's not a decision you make together and you exclude the father and the fact that future actually spoke up about it One . I guess it's because he's messy and we all know this .

Speaker 1 14:43

Yeah .

Speaker 2 14:44

But the second part is that like hey , at the end of the day , that's my kid , like that's my seed , that's one of my loin , you feel me ?

Speaker 3 14:52

Yeah .

Speaker 2 14:52

And that's something that Russell won't have ever .

Speaker 3 14:56

I don't care With that particular child , but he has other kids with her . I don't know . I just think that , like , if a nigga not doing what he's supposed to do as a father , then you can't get mad at another nigga doing his fatherly duties . I don't see no problem with that . I feel like and also this is a separate topic that we can talk about for another day Don't come over here with no kids asking me to be stepmom , because fuck them kids . No shade to your kids , see and I was petty and I wasn't intending on being petty , but for real , that's not petty .

Speaker 3 15:30

That's preference . That's what I was just talking about earlier . You told me that having a preference was petty .

Speaker 2 15:37

No , but you're taking a situation where you're putting your own preference as being it might be considered petty , but that's not petty . It's own preference is being it might be considered petty , but that's not petty . That's it's petty because of the world's view , but in all actuality it's not petty if I say , hey , I don't want to be with somebody who got a kid . Unfortunately , I don't want to be with nobody who has a kid . Yeah , don't matter how great you are of a person , yeah , I need all the attention no , it's well , that might be your reasoning .

Speaker 3 16:01

Mine is just because I don't want to be in a situation where , like I can't not that I believe in discipline , but I don't want no kid to tell me that I can't tell them what to do because I'm you're not my dad . Well , you , motherfucking right , you can go find that nigga Like and tell him to take you to basketball practice if you want to , or whatever the case may be .

Speaker 3 16:22

You're not my mom , you damn right , and because of that I'm not going to be cooking you dinner today . You can figure out how you're going to eat Now . They're calling CPS on me and I told this nigga that I didn't want to raise this baby .

Speaker 2 16:34

So that is actually petty .

Speaker 3 16:37

So let it be .

Speaker 2 16:38

That's petty .

Speaker 3 16:38

Let it be .

Speaker 2 16:40

But mine's petty too . I'm not saying that I need that much attention , I really don't . But if it comes push , cut and the shove and you be like , damn , my kid's sick , I got to take care of it , I'm going to be like , okay , well .

Speaker 3 16:51

Have a good one , have a good one . I just don't think that it matches .

Speaker 2 17:06

Like .

Speaker 2 17:06

I feel like you know , in this people just need to date folks who match their lifestyle , like you have to date folks who ? But you don't meet people like that . Who doesn't ? You don't meet people like that . Like what do you mean ? You meet people ? You meet people by living for the people who actually do like I . I know I can meet somebody who is in the same life frame I am because I actively go out but for people most generally , most people are doing it on dating apps so they don't know if you have kids . They only know you through your , your avi .

Speaker 2 17:27

I feel like oh , your profile picture yeah um , I think you can but because , like , how are you supposed to tell somebody got kids ?

Speaker 3 17:35

if you look at it , on your dating profile , have a picture with the child that's not information .

Speaker 2 17:39

People tell nor should you put that out in front street , because there's pedophiles there's true there's creeps true , yeah child .

Speaker 2 17:46

I just feel like they talking about you know , we're getting to the age to where , like folks , the number of people who are dating have children as opposed to don't yeah , it's really normal and the pickings are going to be slim well , and they , they have a , they have a rule of thumb the closer you get to 30 , the more the dating pool of people who are single without children is doing it gets smaller and then when the other side they say if you for a woman , specifically if you're single over the age of 30 and don't have no kids , they say what's wrong with you as a guy ? It's great .

Speaker 3 18:22

Yeah , they're like , oh wow you've made it this far , you're lucky , you're lucky .

Speaker 2 18:26

Yes , that's what they say .

Speaker 3 18:27

So I mean it's or you're fortunate enough to have some money so you can kill them . Sure , because if I ended up pregnant today , send the 500 you said it already . You said oh yeah , I say it all the time , this is not news .

Petty Conversations Among Family Members

Speaker 2 18:44

We are a very progressive podcast .

Speaker 3 18:46

Yes , trigger . Warning , we kill kids .

Speaker 2 18:54

No , we do not . Don't say that shit like that . What the fuck we ?

Speaker 1 18:57

don't do it , the hell what we don't kill children .

Speaker 3 19:02

What the fuck .

Speaker 2 19:14

Can you recall ?

Speaker 1 19:14

something .

Speaker 2 19:14

Pet , something petty that you have done recently . Recently , yeah , yeah , yeah . So I've been going back and forth with my brother on something , and I keep saying that I was like you have a family . I'm single , yeah , and he's like and he said nigga ain't nobody nigga . I know I'm married , thank you . I know I got kids .

Speaker 3 19:25

Amen , god bless the home .

Speaker 2 19:29

And it got to the point he said I'm thinking about other folks . I said I don't give a fuck about them niggas , fuck them niggas , like what ? But that's again . But he's like hey , blah , blah , blah , I know what ? Again , I'm talking a very roundabout way because I believe in principalities . You know , I'm a Christian , also I'm Yoruba . We believe in principalities .

Speaker 3 19:55

Tradition .

Speaker 2 19:55

Yes , yes , exactly so . I'm not going to speak .

Speaker 3 19:58

Rules of order .

Speaker 2 19:59

I'm not going to speak words and have people try to sow seeds in my sow discords in my field . Do you feel me ?

Speaker 3 20:07

What the hell are you talking about ?

Speaker 2 20:08

You ain't watched Greenleaf .

Speaker 3 20:12

No , I did , but it's hard to get into .

Speaker 2 20:16

What For people who like acting ?

Speaker 3 20:19

It's drama . It's just dramatic in a way that's like too much for me . Like I like shows , I do , like you , like soap operas . So that's why you like Greenleaf , cause you used to watch soap operas .

Speaker 2 20:28

You like reality TV shows ?

Speaker 3 20:31

I do , but I , oh , it's a lot of drama , but it's that's more like I don't know , I don't know what it is about , greenleaf , that I didn't like . I just felt like Black people who are wealthy , I don't know , probably the church , I don't know . I don't know , I can't tell you what it is , but I watched like the first couple of episodes , like the first couple of seasons , for sure yeah , it definitely gets redundant , but you know it's a good show .

Speaker 2 20:54

But what I'll say is this um , what the hell ? What was he talking ?

Speaker 3 20:59

about the pettiest thing you've done . Oh yeah , the pettiest thing .

Speaker 2 21:01

That was the pettiest thing I did with my brother and my brother actually , he got , he got hot , and then I was like oh , why are you getting hot ? Because he's like no , motherfucker , I don't keep . I was like I knew what he said motherfucker . What did he say ? He was like nah , motherfucker I'm thinking about the other motherfuckers oh true okay , so , okay .

Speaker 3 21:17

So let's talk about that , like , when you are in a situation where things get petty , how do you resolve the , the , the situation ?

Speaker 2 21:27

Oh well , me . I usually take a step back and then I'm like , yeah , my bad G .

Speaker 3 21:31

Yeah , I , I'm very quick .

Speaker 2 21:33

The thing about me is a lot of people don't notice I talk a lot of shit but I am so quick to apologize . I , I , if I know .

Speaker 3 21:41

I've done this to me .

Speaker 2 21:43

I've definitely apologized to you .

Speaker 3 21:45

Then one time you've apologized to me . I just gaslit you , I'm sorry .

Speaker 2 21:49

I apologize , I don't I mean . I don't apologize often cause I don't often .

Speaker 3 21:53

You're often not wrong or you often just don't apologize .

Speaker 2 21:56

No , I don't Cause you . You would assume that I do a lot wrong , but I don't do that much . Actually , I'm a pretty decent human being to Yemi , but , yeah , usually that's what I do . But because me and Tunde have such a close relationship and we talk literally every day , we literally were like we didn't have to apologize . It was like nah , bro , you was right , you was right .

Speaker 3 22:19

But I was right too .

Speaker 2 22:21

No , it was like you , right . I was like da-da-da , we'll do this . And then he was like nah , he's like nah , I feel you . I see what you was talking about , but that's how me and Tune communicate . It's a very like . We're both very passionate people in different ways , so it's hard , you know , when you have two very passionate people it's always like butting heads . But then when things are smooth sailing , it's smooth sailing . The last party thing I did to Yemi was at our most recent event , and it was whenever you asked for help . I found a convenient excuse to say no , you didn't know at the time , but I felt very jaded because she decided not to talk to me all week and I was like you're not going to talk to me when you want me to do labor , but you can't even say hi or hello to me . That's it , simple , simple , tell me if I'm wrong .

Speaker 2 23:11

The people , the people tell me if I'm wrong people .

Speaker 3 23:14

No , no , no . Let the people , let the people sound off , but I'm going me like I don't know what it is . But people just like I'm not even trying to be like to my own horn , but like the people who literally love me and they be acting like they don't and I just , I just be living my life like what do you talk about ?

Speaker 2 23:33

I wasn't even being passive . All I wanted is a hi , hello , that's it . It's not hard . You see , we live in the same house , yes , and I think it's the weirdest thing . When somebody can walk right past , you know that you're there and don't say nothing , and he took it so personal and didn't say anything .

Speaker 3 23:48

But then , yeah , yeah , I would just say this , like and you , the people will probably say that I was being petty , but like we in here setting up for the event and you , a man , why , why is you mixing drinks when you see people moving ?

Speaker 2 24:01

furniture . First of all , don't that ? I actually did cut my finger . You saw the band-aid .

Speaker 3 24:05

I did Okay , but then you said it . And once you said it I left it alone . But before that I just outside looking in because I had went to the car .

Speaker 2 24:12

I actually was going to do that right away , but then I was like you know fuck it .

Speaker 3 24:17

Let the women do that , because that's women , women's business . One thing , no . Or did you let ? Did you let ? No no , no , no , no , no , no , no , no , no , no , go ahead . No , no , no . Or did you let the way you felt about not getting a hello deter you from doing men's business ? That's very petty . And that's , that's that's that's crazy that you allowed that to happen .

Speaker 2 24:40

Let's start One .

Speaker 3 24:41

Because you cut your finger .

Speaker 2 24:43

One . Let's start . Yemi , you are a very sexist person in the wrong way . I'm not . That was just very sexist In one way Towards woman . Now I will say this I'm not . I will say this .

Speaker 3 24:54

I respect all the sexists .

Speaker 2 24:55

Yemi knows . One of the things Yemi knows is if you , if you fail to acknowledge me as a human , that just irks me , for whatever reason I did not not acknowledge you , but you were like you have not been the most .

Speaker 3 25:10

let me talk to this . Let me talk to you , know , let me have a full conversation with . Deji Hi , hello For what we live together . Like , Deji wants to be greeted like he's a Nigerian uncle and I'm his .

Speaker 2 25:22

Hi hello , I'm his mate , what ?

Speaker 3 25:25

That's something we grew up on . I give you a head nod , but you were upset because I was not giving you conversation and I just didn't have that for you last week . What ? No , I knew you were sick .

Speaker 2 25:37

Most of the time I was in the bed . So what are you talking about ? Thank you for admitting that , because when you talk , I was most of the time I was in the bed .

Speaker 3 25:42

So what are you talking about ? Thank you . Thank you for admitting that , because when you talk about hi hello , I can't fucking , I can't even breathe , for real , Because .

Speaker 2 25:49

My head is hurting . I don't like that . I can't breathe through my nose .

Speaker 3 25:53

You could say hi .

Speaker 2 25:57

I spent most of the week .

Speaker 3 25:58

Why would I do that ? How are you doing ?

Speaker 2 25:59

How's your week going ? Because I do that .

Speaker 3 26:01

I do that , when do you text me asking me how am I doing ?

Speaker 2 26:04

Because I just go in your room I'll be like , hey , how are you doing ? Yes , yeah .

Speaker 3 26:07

When you feeling all right , but I'm sick . What the fuck ?

Speaker 2 26:15

I don't give a fuck what anybody's saying that's what you're supposed to do when you like day people are going to be like well it seems like Deji loves Yemi a little bit more than Yemi loves Deji . And now you know what ?

Speaker 3 26:25

All I'm trying to say is this Don't let that be the hell you die on . Don't let that be the hell that you die on .

Speaker 2 26:32

It's not but what I was trying to say . All I wanted was a hi hello , Because then , when the event comes , you're over here trying to dictate me . You can't dictate .

Speaker 3 26:38

Yeah , but we're doing business . You shouldn't have let that affect the business .

Speaker 2 26:42

I also didn't want to cut my finger three hours before the event . Okay .

Speaker 3 26:47

No problem . Did you cut it really bad ? Because you don't have a bad cut .

Speaker 2 26:50

It was one of those joints where you pull the nail and there's a hangnail and it starts bleeding .

Speaker 3 26:56

Oh , so that incapacitated you . I feel like you was just being petty and you took it out on everybody else . I I feel like you was just being petty and you took it out on everybody else .

Speaker 2 27:05

I learned not to get in front when women are doing . You see , I didn't do a lot of talking . I let y'all run it when we have the post-mortem tomorrow and we talk about it when are you going to be ? Here .

Speaker 3 27:15

Oh , okay .

Speaker 2 27:16

Oh , I might have to go to Chicago but I'll be on the call . But yeah , when we do a little post-mortem I probably get bit into , which rightfully so . There's a few things I need to get bit into , but also I'm going to do some biting because I did not know the full scope no problem that's it , you don't have to do no biting .

Speaker 3 27:38

You could just be like I was unaware of certain things but you know that's fine .

Speaker 2 27:43

But you're right , you know I'd be petty , but my petty foot is my pettiness is taxal , like I am I don't think that was the right place for you to do that , but but it's not the point .

Navigating Pettiness in Relationships

Speaker 3 27:53

What I'm trying to say is that my pettiness is usually 100 and I had no idea which makes it a little , which makes speak to you , because I was sick all week and if y'all y'all can still hear a little bit of congestion in me now to this day , it's because disregarding somebody makes them feel like they're not . I've told you , oh you . You've been feeling inhumane , but that's not because of me inhumane .

Speaker 2 28:18

I said I feel very human , but I'm just saying you've been feeling less like myself . Yes , yeah you know , I'm not , I'm not , I'm not , I'm not clicking on 110 like yeah , so when you do things you have to just think you .

Speaker 3 28:31

You be thinking it's millen ill intent and I was literally sick all week , so I'm not thinking about you .

Speaker 2 28:36

I'm sorry you don't have to be thinking about me . That's not what I'm saying . Listen , I see you hello , I guess , but also like we live together someone walked through the door , take everything off , come into the kitchen , look at me and then go upstairs like what , what ?

Speaker 3 28:55

that's crazy , because I always do that , did you ? We live together , I see you every day ?

Speaker 2 28:58

what the fuck ? You will say something , something that will suffice as a greeting . I don't give a fuck . If it's a fuck , I couldn't even greeting . I don't give a fuck . If it's a fuck , I couldn't even talk . I'll give a fuck .

Speaker 3 29:06

If it's a fuck , you or hey , nigga or whatever , you know whatever oh my goodness , not only was I sick , but I was also on my period , so I was not worried about what they had going on . Life is life happens without you .

Speaker 3 29:16

Day g like life always has okay , and we happy that we have you in it to live , but let's move on , because that's honestly , even the even talking about this is very petty Like this is so below , below us . I'm very laid back , I'm even keel , I'm joking , I'm kind of go with the flow .

Speaker 2 29:31

Wherever you need me I help . But the one little passive , the one little toxic thing I have is my pettiness and I know I try to break it in so many ways . I'm still trying to break it to this day . But I'm a very petty ass person . Like I'm not talking like respectfully , like I'm a disrespectful in-your-face type of petty person . But if I don't choose to be petty with you , that usually means I don't give two shits about you . And I've come to realize when I don't want to give my energy into pettiness towards somebody that means that , like my life will be good without you .

Speaker 3 30:21

I think the pettiest thing you could do to somebody is just Be indifferent . Just like I don't have good without you .

Speaker 3 30:25

I think the pettiest thing you could do to somebody is just be indifferent , just like I don't have nothing for you . Yeah , I don't have nothing for you , cause , like , even if you are on the attack , like in a mad , like in a negative way , like you talking shit about them , you throwing dirt on their name , like you're still giving it energy , but I think the pettiest thing you can do is just leave it alone , pay no mind . What happened between you and who , who are you talking about ? I don't even know that person exists . What they're doing , like , what earth they working on ? If it's this one , if it's the next one , like I don't think I would ever .

Speaker 2 31:00

I would never talk dirt on nobody's name .

Speaker 3 31:02

Do you think like that's real petty though , like in life , Like if someone you're dating talking bad about them , that's petty . But also like if you see them in public not acknowledging them . That would probably be the worst thing you could do to me and I'd probably snatch you from like a hood . Actually , I probably wouldn't do anything , to be quite honest , I probably wouldn't do anything . To be quite honest , I probably wouldn't do anything . I'd probably be really sad about it . That's always tough , though , because it's like how did it ? And and yeah , well , I mean like if you're not talking to the person because you're just indifferent to the situation .

Speaker 2 31:31

Like , yeah , like I have people I don't talk to , though , because I feel like , if I talk to them , something might come up like and I don't mean like come up romantically , like something might come up in conversation .

Speaker 3 31:41

I just meant like in general , like you could just have a friend that you fought out . You felt , that's what I'm saying , that's what I that's what I meant .

Speaker 2 31:47

Like it could be like that damn son . So you just let me , you just let me go out the way and never reached out and I try to hit me nothing yeah , I have a bad .

Speaker 3 31:56

I have a bad thing about like I'll be wondering what my friends are doing , that I'm not really close to anymore , but also like I'm not in the position to invest too much into relationships . But I would . I really do like I really wish I could be one of those people that just has like a really strong relationship with like a particular group of girls . Um , this is crazy because I'm in a sorority , but I feel like , yeah , like I just want to .

Speaker 3 32:23

That's something that I need to unpetty unpetty is that pettiness or is that just like you , just be tired I'm uh , I would say so , but I just feel like for me I just need like my own . You know , I think it's very hard as we become adults to like form relationships , platonic that are substantial .

Speaker 3 32:49

So I just feel like for me , if it's not my own , if it's not personable or personal , if it's not exclusive , I kind of don't really want it and I feel like everybody already has that established . But you know , I don't know , that may be petty of me and my thinking , but that's kind of how I feel about that .

Speaker 2 33:07

Um yeah , you know I'm always twisted , I'm torn , you feel me .

Navigating Pettiness and Relationships

Speaker 3 33:16

I still think that the pettiest person you know is a nigga .

Speaker 2 33:19

So I doubt that . So you said who's the pettiest person you know nigga .

Speaker 3 33:27

So I doubt that . So you said who's the pettiest person you know ? A nigga , no , who ? No , not like directly , but I feel like when I think of people who I'm asking you though no , I mean , I don't have a specific person because I I don't know but I do know that the men that I , that I have around me , that I associate with , they be saying some petty ass shit .

Speaker 2 33:44

They'd be petty the pettiest person I know is in this house yes , who is it ?

Speaker 3 33:49

it's not you okay , I was about to say because you could . You could call it out .

Speaker 2 33:53

You could say my name no , you know who it is . She's the pettiest person . You know who she is . Your mom yeah . Is she the pettiest , yes .

Speaker 3 34:05

She just has a very innate way of like undercutting and like just like doing things . That that's what I'm saying . I'm saying like her pettiness is not intentional and- .

Speaker 2 34:19

But it is . But it is Because she didn't get what she wanted .

Speaker 3 34:22

But it is yeah . When she don't get what she wanted , but it is yeah . When she don't get what she wants , she become the worst , the prettiest . I just never understood that . Like how could somebody like my mother is a grown like , an adult woman and if she does not get what she wants out of her children , she will treat us like the stepchildren and we're from her loins ?

Speaker 3 34:46

She pushed me out early because I was supposed to be born at the end of july you pretty much was I just , I just I feel like I should have been a leo to be quite honest , things , things would make so much more sense . But , honestly , if I was a leo and I was a july leo I would feel a type of way because I feel like leos in august make more actually . I don't know , I like being a july leo . I would feel a type of way because I feel like leo's in august make more actually . I don't know , I like being a july baby in general , but we're getting off topic , I think I don't know . But yeah , our mom is pretty petty , so that's where we get it from . Our dad is petty as well .

Speaker 3 35:16

Extremely , you know what it is . I think it's pisces , because both of our parents are pisces petty , petty Pisces . If we didn't name these episodes with the letter G , that would be the name of this episode Petty Pisces . Cease to cease , because y'all bitches be petty as fuck . I'm thinking about it . Who's the messiest person ? You know the pettiest person . You know it's a Pisces .

Speaker 2 35:42

So now you just went from it's a pisces .

Speaker 3 35:43

So now you just went from it was a nigga to now it's a nigga who's a pisces and there's no shade to the nigga that's a pisces , that I know , but he's pretty petty . But like , not in like a mean way , just like in a , you know everybody has it in them everybody has it in them .

Speaker 3 35:55

I think everybody has the ability to be petty and your maturity is how you decide to take it , and I feel like , for me , everyone is looking for me to be like this petty , yummy , yummy , mean person and I really am not like . I really , at the end of the day , for me , I feel like my reaction to things is to just not care sure and it's not about being intentionally petty . I just don't give a fuck about a lot of stuff sure friend you don't believe .

Speaker 3 36:23

So I said sure , friend , I just feel like I'm not . I don't know , I don't think I'm intentionally petty . I feel like I got into a situation where , like the people in the room thought I was being petty because , like I completely forgot about a situation . It was like a card game , you know , like those drinking games and a card came up and it was like a card game , you know , like those drinking games , and a card came up and it was like something that was like messy right and I didn't peep until it clicked for me that the card had like some sort of significance for some people in the room .

Speaker 3 36:56

And when I finally got it I was like oh , no , no , no . I was like oh . And then everybody else was like damn , suki , you being petty .

Speaker 2 37:05

And .

Speaker 3 37:05

I'm like , I'm really not . I really don't give a fuck about what y'all be telling me . I don't know shady shit , but like you , just don't be remembering . I just like . I feel like if it's not my business , it's not my business ?

Speaker 2 37:14

It's not my business .

Speaker 3 37:17

I do live by that rule too . The rule because people will call you petty and it's really just . I'm not one of those people that are that invested into shit that don't got nothing to do with me . If I tell you all the stuff that I have going on in my life right now , you would be like girl . How do you keep it all together in your brain ?

Speaker 2 37:32

I don't , I don't , I just when it comes in .

Speaker 3 37:35

That's when it comes in . It comes out like and if it , if it comes in and it don't got shit to do with what I got going on in my life , I'll push it to the side . So that way , when it happened , when it happened and it clicked , I was like oh , and they thought I was being petty and I was like no , I literally forgot and I just remembered . But now y'all got me out here as public enemy and it didn't even give that , because but I understand where that comes from , because I just give that off I tell you it's the affect , but that's something you can change I think so , but I honestly like we talked about it before you can't change people's perception of you because but fuck them yeah it's not really for them to .

Speaker 2 38:11

Honestly , everything you do is for yourself . If you change and you like who you are , then are you good ? Yeah , that's what ? The same thing . I used to be a very petty person . So the fact that I'm talking about this openly and letting people know like I used to do extreme , like my pettiness knew no bounds , like I would be in here plotting plot , it was like one of my most DV . It was like the one time where people could not like I'm a very transparent person , like you usually know what I'm doing a thousand , a thousand miles away , but when I would want to be petty , I'm telling you right now I was unmatched , I was unmatched , I was unmatched and that's it . But we could move on because , you know , I feel like we beat this to a head . So let's do some . I have a segment , but I'll wait for us to do our regular stuff .

Speaker 2 39:02

Oh , you over here doing stuff different . Now no , we said , we were gonna do this . Really , remember back you were like oh yeah , let's talk about . Uh , this is r&b thug , where we discuss musical lyrics let's do that then okay . Well , you have to pull up the musical lyric okay , what's the song ? Saturn remember , um sure , but we don't I have other songs as well .

Speaker 3 39:20

I don't know if that necessarily fits with the theme of today's episode . Not that it has to . We can pull up Saturn and dissect it .

Speaker 2 39:27

We could go over Kill Bill , but we've already done .

Speaker 1 39:29

Cezanne , I might kill my ex . Not the best idea .

Speaker 2 39:35

Oh , I actually have a really good song that we could do .

Speaker 1 39:38

How did I get here ? I might kill my ex . I still don't know .

Speaker 3 39:50

Actually I feel like we should do Saturn for a different episode . Okay , that's fine . Yeah , let's do the ghetto intellectual because , deji , you actually asked me this question and I thought this would be a good answer , good question for you to answer on ghetto intellectual .

Speaker 3 40:03

You asked the question , ask this so we're not doing r&b though no that's fine friends , we'll save that for a different episode , because I actually need to look at the lyrics and interpret them for myself . But I did what ? The lyrics that I did here from saturn was fire . But we're gonna save that for a different episode , um , because that could go with something else 100 but% . But the gut and intellectual question is this and I feel like it comes in line with pettiness you said after someone has left your life , when is an appropriate time to re-invite them back into your life , if that's even an option ?

Speaker 2 40:37

Oh , I did ask you that question .

Speaker 3 40:38

You did ask me that question and I said save that for later . Also don't Me personally , okay . So look , asked me that question and I said save that for later . Also don't me personally okay so I think it's contingent , but like , yes , you can go ahead uh , I mean obviously , if it's contingent , but if it's a ghetto , answer shit I guess this is always your ghetto .

Speaker 2 40:55

Intellectual answer my ghetto intellectual answer is sugar and spice and everything . Nice type of answer it depends how I'm feeling on the night . You know what I'm saying honestly , honestly .

Speaker 2 41:05

That's real , that's the real shit like I'm saying that like like if I'm feeling like man , I can't believe this person did this shit to me , like because you know I'm saying that and like because you know every night is different , but in totality , if I step back and be like , oh no , this person was really good to me , it would be it'd have to be . How did how do I think this person was really good to me ? It would be it'd have to be . How did how do I think this person perceives me ? If I feel like the person perceives me pretty favorably , which yeah like for most of the time .

Speaker 2 41:32

There's never been somebody who I was messing with . Don't get me wrong . I got . I have my strikeouts where I would never reach out to that woman again . You know what I'm saying . Oh , so this is somebody that you dated . No , oh , I was saying this in general because I was thinking about how a lot of my friends are getting married and you were , and you've been complaining about the dates and I'm like shit , what do you want me to ?

Speaker 3 41:54

do , just because I don't like when people plan they uh , they like birthdays , weddings , around holidays , right , like I only get this holiday off for work and or for whatever and you want me to spend it with you celebrating you . It's no shade , but I just feel like I get it financially but also like I want to do hood rest , shit or you know , and I don't want to have to be limited to the things that I can do but I started because I want to celebrate you or be a part of your union or whatever the fuck .

Speaker 2 42:23

So that's why I started thinking about it , because I was like damn , like you had a whole this time to kind of get back into contact with me , but because you want my gift . You know what I'm saying .

Speaker 1 42:33

Oh , you want me to be there for your special day .

Speaker 2 42:36

Like what the fuck .

Speaker 1 42:38

So what you ?

Speaker 2 42:38

gonna do . We gonna catch up and talk like we friends . You know what I we gonna catch

Reconnecting With Past Relationships

Speaker 2 42:49

up and talk like we friends . You know I'm saying there's a lot of things that we we've . I you know like I myself have lived life , so I can't only imagine what you have right , yeah , especially when I've tried to reach out .

Speaker 3 42:54

So then it's like interesting . I feel like it's contingent on how things ended . Like if they ended on good terms , then yeah for sure . If they ended on bad terms , definitely not . But if it's like this , like ambient in between hot , cold type of thing , I don't know , if you feel like that , you should probably just wait it out . Also , just think about like what , for what ? You know what I mean . Like if someone is not in your life anymore , what's what's to having them re-enter your life or be a re-part of your life , like in a different capacity , because of course it's not going to be in the same capacity . Like I'll be thinking about that , like , especially when I get drunk , because I'll be like damn , I got shit to say . But I'm also like for what ? Because the worst thing you could do is the worst thing that could happen for me is I like , uh , like get off of my , my ego or whatever , and I reach out , and it's not receptive the way that I would want it to be .

Speaker 2 43:50

That's the worst thing that can happen .

Speaker 3 43:52

That's why I do that shit sober , because then I'm like at least at least you did it with a clear mind , yes , but you know , the alcohol give you courage not me , well , because you courage to say the shit , you , you , the spicy shit yes but at least when you do it with a clear mind , you could say this , that you did it like with , with the , with the sound decision , like you did it with , like , yeah , um , I feel that twofold .

Speaker 3 44:14

Like I feel like the same way when you drunk for show , when you sober , for sure . But I just feel like I want to make sure that when I do get lit , my mind is is thinking the same way that my sober mind would think , but just without the verbato , like without that extra push , because I I'm okay with , you know , talking my shit , sober , drunk , what all the things . But , um , yeah , so that was ghetto , intellectual . What do y'all think ? Do y'all think you should be , um , reaching out to anybody that has left your life ? And do you think it's contingent ? And what is it contingent on ?

Speaker 2 44:48

I think it , and this crazy thing is , I think it's easier when it's been a lover as opposed to a friend . Oh , I think , because for me , I always have a challenge with friends because I'm like man , we , we , we parted . Because we parted . Whatever happened happened . It is what it is for sure .

Speaker 3 45:03

I mean , I give everyone the this space to come back into my life like for whatever , whatever it was romantic and not romantic , like , but you just have to .

Speaker 2 45:11

I just need at this point in my life , like for what you know , but for me , it's because I know how much I invest and if I'm gonna do that with a friendship bruh , we locked in . So whatever you tell me you're going through , we going through it . We finna go through this transfer , we finna get it together . We finna get it done . You feel me , but as a same token , I don't want to be in that same position where I try to lean on you and you not there .

Speaker 3 45:35

I would never lean on anybody that left my life Like that's not Right . Well , well , well , well , okay . No , I say that and now that I think about it , that might be because then that your friend , somebody that you dated , they know you better than anybody else and it's like I feel like for me , I just have this thing where I'm like , damn , this would have been such a good thing to talk about with this person because they understand , I don't even think about it .

Speaker 2 46:01

That's what I'll be thinking like .

Speaker 3 46:02

I'll be thinking about my friends and I'll be thinking about like situations that I feel like damn they would have . Like this is just . I just need to tell them this and I feel like if you know it'd be weird I do that with music .

Speaker 2 46:14

I do that with music , music tweets like anything , like , like anything I'd be like damn motherfucker would love this song . Yes , sure you would have loved that song , you know .

Speaker 3 46:23

Yes , yes , yes , yes or and yeah , that's more so what it is and in those situations like you kind of just got to eat that , but that's , that's like that's a good topic to talk about with like a mass of people of course that'd be , uh , that's a um , that's a , that's a think , that's a think joint yeah , well , I was also thinking like a sunday session , like songs that you , that you want , that you could send to somebody yeah , um , okay , so let's move on to things I send ag on twitter .

Speaker 3 46:55

I sent this tweet to you march 14th , 2024 , the year that we're in right now . Um , it's a video of the of the fight that broke out on the on the train in new york .

Chopped Cheese and New York Conversations

Speaker 1 47:12

So funny , oh my goodness , I would laugh a little bit harder , but I'm going through life .

Speaker 3 47:17

Uh , but is she talking about whereish ? The door , the door , the door , the door , the door , the door , the door , the door , the door , the door , the door , the door , the door , the door , the door , the door , the door , the door , the door , the door , the door , the door , the door , the door , the door , the door , the door , the door , the door , the . Let me out .

Speaker 1 47:47

Let me out , let me out , let me out , let me out , let me out .

Speaker 2 47:54

Let me out .

Speaker 3 48:01

Okay , y'all , that's not funny . Okay , gunshots is not funny . Trigger , warning , trigger , warning's not funny .

Speaker 1 48:05

Okay , gunshots is not funny .

Speaker 3 48:06

Trigger warning , trigger warning , yes , trigger warning gunshots but um it's not funny because you know , you know somebody ended up losing their life exactly . But it was funny because she was recorded the whole time talking about let me out , let me out . And then she turned the camera on herself Because are you really that scared ? But also like , look how far the world has come .

Speaker 3 48:31

Where , like you're in danger and you pulling out your phone to tell people to let you out Like bitch , even if you post , even if you are alive . You think I'm finna . Come to where a nigga with a gun is on a train in New York to come and help save your , your life .

Speaker 2 48:46

I was just there .

Speaker 3 48:47

I'm cool , shorty oh my goodness , it was just so funny because she got an accent . You could tell she's been in the states for a little bit , but she's still african , yeah , so she talked about me out even before that . Excuse me , she was like . She was like , man , go stop them , go stop them . I'm right here , girl bro . I'm right here , bro , stop them . Oh , my goodness , that's just so funny . But yes , um , that was , that was . That was .

Speaker 3 49:10

That was great so she sent that to me because she wanted to laugh yeah , you know we'd be laughing about stuff that's not supposed to be funny for real , but of course we all do . We all have a wicked sense of humor yeah , also my humor is dry , but I it's that was dry no , no that that video wasn't dry , but what preceded ?

Speaker 2 49:26

that was that buddy got stabbed , so the whole video oh yeah , we'll post the video the video is very wild .

Speaker 3 49:32

Yes , yes yeah , the girl's stabbing him the dude , he was fighting the one guy and then the girl stabbed him and she was like you stabbed a cop , he wasn't a police . Yeah , exactly , he wasn't a police . You know , people in new york are crazy . I don't know what . What they got in the water . I just I don't understand how y'all it's too many people I just don't understand how like y'all live like that like it's too many people .

Speaker 2 49:53

Y'all have very small quarters like it's a lot you . You're dealing with a lot .

Speaker 3 49:57

You feel me but the people that I know I mean like the people that I work with at my job they like cheerful and be in New York .

Speaker 2 50:03

Because they have money .

Speaker 3 50:04

Yeah , but even my boss . I know that man make money he's talking about . Yeah , you know we live in a little one bedroom apartment in New York and I'm like but you got , I know you got bands Because he want to .

Speaker 1 50:17

Yeah , probably because of location .

Speaker 2 50:18

People will live some places just because of location . It's the easy I'm right by the subway or yeah , he lives in Brooklyn . Brooklyn's a good place . Yeah , I love Brooklyn . Okay , honestly , it was cool and they just go to New York now , you .

Speaker 3 50:30

I feel like you've been to New York too many times .

Speaker 2 50:32

I do like New York .

Speaker 3 50:34

Yeah , you would move there .

Speaker 2 50:35

No , no Hell , no hands a lot man just getting used to the grime is it's enough it's like a two-day adjustment it's enough two days two , four days , and then I'm like , all right , cool oh , like cool you can I feel like I don't need to always put on hand sanitizer .

Speaker 3 50:57

Yeah , but other than that , it's fun it's just , we just don't never go to sleep , and we like we like sleep I like sleep chicago be asleep because they need all the black people to be up and out the out the way I just like it .

Speaker 2 51:10

It's a good time . What are we missing ? I ?

Speaker 1 51:14

don't know , I didn't really like new york .

Speaker 3 51:17

I feel like if you went again , I gotta go one time I feel like there's like bits and pieces from the trips that I've gone on that I appreciate , but in totality the times that I've gone to New York , I haven't had like an experience that made me feel like , oh my goodness , I need to go back . Like I've been there twice for work and the second time . The last time I went there is when the fires from Canada was coming so a bitch couldn't breathe . The sky was yellow and like I was actually like the last day I was planning to go out was when the sky was yellow and I was like , damn , I gotta be in a hotel room all day and that's fine . I went and got a chopped cheese and I went to the not to the bodega , but I went to one of these like dispensaries , cause they just sell weed anywhere buy me some weed and I just got high in the hotel room . I went to sleep .

Speaker 2 52:09

I woke up and caught a flight back home yeah , the bodega , I don't know , but the chopped cheese , but you , I'll go to back to new york for the chopped cheese . But you go to new york at the right time , because I ain't never been in the summer , and that's the thing I just need at this point . I just need to go to new york in the summer .

Speaker 3 52:24

Yeah , I'm straight yeah , I want to go to new york . In this , I feel like that's the experience I'm missing , because I haven't gone to new york to just be like a tourist for real . It's always been like for work , or we're doing rolling loud and we can't do anything but go to the concert , or even when we never do that , even when we went for , when we went for barnaby white .

Speaker 3 52:46

That was a good weekend , though that was that was a good weekend because , like , we only had the one day where we were tied to stuff and then we were able to do other things . But even like that last day when we went to soho , I was like I'm ready to go we went to soho like the area , not soho house I was about to say we went to Soho to do like shopping , but there was no places in the shop in Soho . Really yeah .

Speaker 2 53:06

But then people said they don't really be going shopping in Soho . That's what I've been hearing .

Speaker 3 53:10

No .

Speaker 2 53:13

But no , it was a good time . It was a little good time . I'm very happy , all right , but we had our first event , dirty Denim .

Speaker 3 53:34

Yummy , what you about the event ? I think it was great . I feel like that could be its own episode , and we should probably make it one . How are we looking for time ? Good , we're at 55 , okay , yeah , we can wrap up this episode then . Um , thank you so much . We're gonna talk about dirty , dirty denim at a later date . Thank you so much for the folks that showed up . It was a good turnout for our first event and we're definitely going to scale up .

Speaker 2 53:48

And plan another .

Speaker 3 53:51

The only way to make sure that you get informed about the events that we're doing is to follow us on social medias . I am Suki G's on Instagram and Twitter . That is S-U-K-I-G , double E-Z , because I make everything that I try look twice as easy . On TikTok . I am DJ Suki G's , that's D-J-S-U-K-I-G-E-Z . Nothing but a G thing on social media . We are nothing . Spelled all the way out N-O-T-H-I-N-G . On Instagram and Twitter . We are active , we are active there . If you communicate with us , we will communicate . Twitter we are active , we are active there . If you communicate with us , we will communicate back . We are also on TikTok at nothing . Spelled all the way out N-O-T-H-I-N-G . Capital B , capital A , capital G , thing spelled all the way out . That's on TikTok as well , deji .

Speaker 2 54:39

You can follow me on IG and Twitter at the R-M&B underscore thug . I'm sorry , the R&B thug underscore daji . R&b is spelled R and B . Lastly , what I always like to say y'all keep it lovely .

Speaker 3 54:56

Free mellow bucks .

Speaker 2 54:58

Free more bucks . Free mellow bucks , mellow bucks , free mellow bucks . Condolences to the people of be more baltimore

Fear of Bridges and NCAA Basketball

Speaker 2 55:06

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Speaker 3 55:06

That bridge falling is just that . Shit is one of the scariest things .

Speaker 2 55:10

That's why , my goodness , I don't even imagine I don't even get good when I'm on a bridge . That's actually one of my like final destiny yours .

Speaker 3 55:16

Yeah , I'll be speeding across them , bitches , oh my god on bridges for nothing , oh my goodness , especially since , like chicago , has bridges too . Yeah , I don't like being on bridges for nothing , oh my goodness , especially since , like Chicago , has bridges too .

Speaker 2 55:25

Yeah , I don't like that shit . I'd be trying to figure out how to get off the motherfuckers as soon as you get on the bridges , as soon . Oh , my goodness , I don't even trust them , but yeah prayers for all those people .

Speaker 3 55:32

Also , I'm rooting on LSU to make it to the final four and to win the championship . I don't give a about Iowa and Caitlin Clark and I can talk shit about that place because I went to school there for four years . They don't give a fuck about black people , just like George Bush . And that's where I end this right here Angel Reese , anissa Morrow from Chicago . If they make it to the , if they beat Iowa , or if it's Iowa and LSU again playing on that side , I'm getting an Iowa jersey with Anissa Morrow on it , because that's a superstar right there . She was at DePaul .

Speaker 2 56:13

Wait , is she on ?

Speaker 3 56:14

Iowa . No , she's on LSU , she's from Chicago . She went to DePaul for two years and then transferred but when she was at DePaul she was averaging like 27 , 28 points a game , like double digits rebounds , like averaging a double-double . She transferred to LSU and she's literally like one of their best . Well , they have a lot of good players on their team but she's one of the best players but she just gets overlooked because Angel Reese but she's dope as fuck and I need Samara for the the win . I'm team LSU all the way for the repeat . Got you Fuck . Kaylin Clark , no shade .

Speaker 2 56:47

You heard ?

Speaker 3 56:47

her .

Speaker 2 56:48

She's cool , we're going to catch up .

Speaker 3 56:50

We're going to talk about that in episode two .

Speaker 1 56:53

Cause ain't nothing but a G-Bang . Baby Too low , damn G . So we crazy . Death row is the label that pays man .

Speaker 2 57:05

Unfadable , so please don't try to fade this . But back to the lecture at hand .